There’s a a lot of do’s and don’ts of online dating. You can’t be making any mistakes when it comes to online dating or else like I’ve mentioned before you will lose her because there are a lot of others guys on these sites. I’ve spoken to a lot of my readers one on one before when they have reached out to me about their dating woes, so I have a lot of experience in this field. I’ve seen a lot of different scenarios and I myself have failed a lot in the past but that doesn’t mean you have to.
Here are some tips on what to avoid when dating:
Don’t take things personally
Even though its it often referred to as the “adult personals” section of dating, don’t take matters you run into “personally”. Why you might ask? Not everyone you meet on these sites is going to be the right fit, and that’s fine. Everyone has different compatibility. If you get rejected or your casual date with that person ends up as a fail, simply move on!
Don’t feel entitled
When it comes to online dating, you’re not entitled to everything. This really applies to everything in life but from a lot of the people I’ve mentored who have failed in the past, it seems that there is a common theme that a lot of men think they are entitled to pussy. You’re not. You have to earn it and there’s plenty of other men who play the game and will take your spot.
Don’t have FOMO
FOMO = Fear of missing out. If you use alot of online dating apps like Bumble, Tinder, Snapsext, etc., you probably have a handful of matches. Don’t pass up on matches waiting for the ‘one’. Think of it like this, you match with a girl but you’re not satisfied. If she was right in front of you at this moment would you fuck her? If the answer is yes, then hit her up and get drinks with her. Waiting around for that ‘one’ is a waste of time and just have fun until you find her.
These are many of the mistakes I’ve encountered in my career of online dating and what I’ve seen from others from mentoring. Do you think I miss anything? Comment below!